How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 20:05

How does one succeed in life?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Ask yourself:

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Does not procrastinate.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

That's it for today.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What I need from you?

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Do not set goals—set systems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.